so am i crazy? probably!! just a vent really..

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so am i crazy? probably!! just a vent really..

Post by meandyou » Mon Jan 21, 2013 10:00 pm

So my DD father and I split up in April last year when DD was 6 months old, she and I moved back to my parents house to save money. Anyways over the last months he has been having bubs for the day ona Saturday or Sunday ( no sleepovers as he isn't set up with a cot) one day whern she returned I thought DD looked different but couldn't work it out, then when I was washing her hair it felt shorter, when I asked ex if he had taken her for haircut he just laughed and was like I'm so offended how dare you even ask.. then another time he came down to have lunch and dd dropped bread on the floor and I picked it up and put it in serviette to be chucked out and then he got moody and got up and took bub for a walk. When I caught up wih them bub climbed into my arms and then he started telling me off for feeding her food off the floor and how he is bubs father and I should show him respect blah blah ( in front of a shopping centre) I was like whoa and started to walk away and he tried to grab dd from my arms and then followed us carrying on about how he is dd father and showing hm respect and deacency..

Oh and he isalways bagging out my family to my face but nothing is allowed to be said about his family.

To be honest I'm exhausted and don't know what to do...

Sorry for such a long winded post and my bad spelling and grammar _ still trying to work out my tablet thingo..

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Post by fellare » Mon Jan 21, 2013 10:17 pm

hugs, that sound quite hard. Are you two seeing a counsellor to help arranging these sort of things?
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Post by Nedsmum » Mon Jan 21, 2013 10:25 pm

Do you have a parenting plan and court orders in place ?

It may be time to do that!

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Post by Nedsmum » Mon Jan 21, 2013 10:26 pm

Do you have a parenting plan and court orders in place ?

It may be time to do that!

Hugs...
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Post by akinasmum » Fri Jan 25, 2013 11:57 am

That sounds familiar. I wouldn't worry about the comments. They sound like him just blowing off steam. The physical behaviour is a little odd though.
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Post by Westaussie77 » Fri Jan 25, 2013 6:44 pm

Sorry this is happening to you and your LO.

Sometimes verbal and physical outbursts can esculate over time (called the cycle of violence). Please be careful. Any chance of having another adult present when meeting your XP?

Hope things improve very soon
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Post by Feebes » Fri Jan 25, 2013 7:24 pm

Sorry that you are going through this.

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