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Postby Canola » Wed Jul 10, 2013 11:59 pm

Hi girls. I'm freaking out! I have been planning to make an appointment to get a diaphragm but haven't done it yet. So we have been using pull and pray! So this cycle it was day 21/22 figured that ovulation was over, if it had even happened. Didn't have a clear period of ewcm. I had creamy cm on day 21 so figured we didn't need to pull out at the crucial moment. On day 22 we bd in the am and then all day I had really heavy pain in the tum, followed by the most ewcm I've had all cycle. So I think we are in trouble! The two times I have conceived naturally I was drinking this herbal stuff. So I'd be surprised if i got pregnant. I had a blood nose this morning which always happen when I'm pregnant!
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Postby JMc » Thu Jul 11, 2013 6:27 am

Oh wow! Hope it turns out to be which ever you really want! And hope you can survive the next 2 weeks while you wait and see. Hugs!
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Postby JMc » Thu Jul 11, 2013 6:29 am

Just thought of something, definitely cm not semen?
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Postby manomummy » Thu Jul 11, 2013 8:36 am

Hope you get the results you want. DD2 is our bonus bub. I thought I knew my cycle really well. It turns out that I must have ovulated a week earlier, as my dating scan was one week further along.
We are now so grateful we got our surprise.
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Postby Canola » Thu Jul 11, 2013 9:43 am

It's a possibility jmc, but I think looking back now, the ewcm was the following morning after the morning sex. And it was very clear and stringy. We haven't really said a definite yes we'll have a third but we talk and joke about it all the time. I'm just not sure about right now. Oh well, time will tell!
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Postby keyfive » Thu Jul 11, 2013 11:41 am

I know with Billings that you are not meant to have sex two days in a row because the semen can mimic fertile CM. But that's not to say that you didn't ovulate later though. Hope it all works out how you want it to x
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Postby ~WildChild~ » Thu Jul 11, 2013 9:15 pm

We also have a bonus baby because we DTD when it's normally safe & I then I ovulated a week early. I hope you get the answer you want. We wouldn't change anything for the world x
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Postby Baby Blue Eyes » Thu Jul 11, 2013 9:23 pm

when can you test?
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Postby marie7 » Thu Jul 11, 2013 9:26 pm

Wow canola!! That sounds exactly like my cm story and I'm in the 2ww as well!! I thought we had missed the boat for ovulation! But re thought after tummy pain and I've had cm on and off since then... I've got about 3ish days to go to find out!!!! Good luck!!
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Postby Canola » Fri Jul 12, 2013 4:26 pm

Thanks girls. I think if I went to the loo and had AF I'd be disappointed so that really answers my question but I'm still freaking out! Bought preg tests today. I am only 4dpo if I ovulated when I think I did. I ovulated late with dd, the fertility software were wrong with their o predictor so when I thought I was 14dpo and got a BFP I was really only 7dpo in hindsight. So I could test in 3 days. I wish I was taking my temp I find it all so much clearer. Might have to consider it if we continue using this method. There is also the possibility that I didn't ovulate at all cause I didn't have a clear period of fertile cm.

Marie7 when can you test?
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Postby marie7 » Fri Jul 12, 2013 9:12 pm

I think I could test now, but I don't want to, because I'm so sure I am, but I'm also so sure I'm not :? Think I'm getting my period.... But not sure :? And would really love to be pregnant!! I'll wait a couple more days...
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Postby dellywatts » Sat Jul 13, 2013 8:08 am

That's how DD1 was conceived. I ovulated later than usual and though we were in a 'safe' period.

Good luck Canola. Hope you get the result you are hoping for
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Postby fellare » Sat Jul 13, 2013 2:28 pm

hope you get the result you want!
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Postby Canola » Mon Jul 15, 2013 9:41 am

Not to be, CD1 today. And as I guessed, disappointed. At least l know how I feel about a third now. Thanks for the support girls.

Marie7 how are you feeling?
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Postby Penguin » Mon Jul 15, 2013 10:46 am

Glad for you canola if that's what you wanted xx
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