I lost my 7 month old daughter

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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by mooki » Tue Aug 26, 2014 9:08 am

congratulations on baby George. Its really nice to hear from you.

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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by fellare » Tue Aug 26, 2014 9:48 am

congratulations! and big hugs. Mary will never really go away, will she.
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by PellyintheWilderness » Tue Aug 26, 2014 10:49 am

Congratulations on the birth of baby George. Thinking of your little Mary too. Big hugs.
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by Little Tiggermum » Tue Aug 26, 2014 1:34 pm

Congratluations and welcome George :smt026 :smt026
Big Hugs for Bill. :smt056
you're all dealing with some huge life issues that society doesn't really handle that well.
I think of Mary quite often when I see some blue wrens. Funnily enough I know the names of the babies who have died on here, but struggle to remember the names of the living children. :roll: I've been told that talking about them is what parents want to do.
Does George look anything like Mary?
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by Ducks » Tue Aug 26, 2014 2:55 pm

Congratulations on the birth of George!
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by snowie » Thu Aug 28, 2014 9:47 am

Lovely to see you posting again.
Congratulations on the birth of George :-D :-D
Keeping Mary in my thoughts too xxxx
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by s squirrel » Thu Aug 28, 2014 9:32 pm

snowie wrote:Lovely to see you posting again.
Congratulations on the birth of George :-D :-D
Keeping Mary in my thoughts too xxxx
This^^^
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by DigDig » Sat Jan 10, 2015 10:57 pm

Remembering Mary.
Congratulations for baby George! Great news. Hope you are all well.
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by daymond » Sun Jan 11, 2015 7:37 am

We're all doing ok, living the new normal, starting to be able to look towards the future, which is actually very hard to achieve considering the world did stop that day.
It's nice people hear ask about her and how we are unfortunately I'm still a bit of a leper among some in the community but I've noticed that the people who do matter are supportive, and since I've never been much of a social networker it's ok.
It was rather hard after George was born so much grief and celebration at the same time mixed with the usual sleep deprivation and hormones. But I think we are starting to realize we can keep him forever and watch him grow. He's such a funny young man with a similar disposition to Mary, very easy going and cheeky and definatly loves his food.
The pain will never go away but there is fun and love too and Mary will always be apart of us.
Some time when I'm ready I will write down her life story so you can all know her.

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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by DigDig » Sun Jan 11, 2015 11:43 am

Nice to hear things are getting better. l would love to hear about Mary. l sometimes wonder What she was like.
keeping you all in my thoughts.
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by Little Tiggermum » Mon Jan 12, 2015 4:10 pm

It would be lovely to hear more about Mary.
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Re: I lost my 7 month old daughter

Post by Esther » Mon Jan 12, 2015 8:16 pm

Little Tiggermum wrote:It would be lovely to hear more about Mary.
^^^This. And hugs.
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