One of our own

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Re: One of our own

Post by AbbeyCat » Sat Jul 01, 2017 8:16 am

Thank you Feebes for reminding us of what an amazing lady she was.

Like many others, this is my first visit to the Forum in a number of years.

I wanted to come and pay respect to a wonderful woman. I only knew her here and another very addictive social media. Everything she said was of value, and it was often through Feebes that we'd get a glimpse in to their lives. She showed that you can be strong, caring and funny.

Such a loss for her family, friends and community.

You, your DD and the pilot will not be forgotten.

Sending CBSs to all her knew her in real life, Forum or other social media. Xxxx
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Re: One of our own

Post by Mummy woo! » Sat Jul 01, 2017 8:29 am

Thanks for sharing all of that Feebes. I knew F&O was a special friend to you, but I didn't know how far back you went.

I remember the red boots when your Charlotte was born :)

(And was it the jeans lady?)
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Re: One of our own

Post by Bailey's Mum » Sat Jul 01, 2017 11:28 am

Feebes, we all love you so much. Thank you for sharing your memories of F&O. It makes us love her all the more too.

Everyone, if you would like to contribute to the gift we will be sending via Feebes, please PM me for details. Feebes is organising it, but I'm happy to pass on the details to take some of the load off her while she grieves her friend. All donations do need to be finalised by 7th July, so I'll make sure I log in a couple of times a day this week.
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Re: One of our own

Post by Baby Blue Eyes » Fri Jul 07, 2017 11:04 am

Thank you Feebes for sharing we are all thinking of you and her family every day
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Re: One of our own

Post by freerange » Sun Jul 09, 2017 8:46 pm

I'm so surprised and sad to hear about Four&out and her daughter.

I've not been looking at the forum much lately and usually avoid this thread like the plague... take care Feebes and I hope you are able to help F&O's family too.

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Re: One of our own

Post by Feebes » Sun Jul 09, 2017 9:13 pm

freerange wrote:I'm so surprised and sad to hear about Four&out and her daughter.

I've not been looking at the forum much lately and usually avoid this thread like the plague... take care Feebes and I hope you are able to help F&O's family too.
My close friend and I went to four&out's last weekend. She's 'our' photographer and does our family shoots. four&outs DH asked for the last lot of photoshoots. They used one of the photos for the local paper and also to assist in ID'ing the bodies. :cry:

It was a weird way to help them, but every bit counts.

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Re: One of our own

Post by freerange » Mon Jul 10, 2017 6:58 pm

Every bit helps! I think just staying involved with her family will be a big help in itself

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Re: One of our own

Post by Mummy woo! » Tue Jul 11, 2017 6:56 am

Feebes wrote:
freerange wrote:I'm so surprised and sad to hear about Four&out and her daughter.

I've not been looking at the forum much lately and usually avoid this thread like the plague... take care Feebes and I hope you are able to help F&O's family too.
My close friend and I went to four&out's last weekend. She's 'our' photographer and does our family shoots. four&outs DH asked for the last lot of photoshoots. They used one of the photos for the local paper and also to assist in ID'ing the bodies. :cry:

It was a weird way to help them, but every bit counts.

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I bet they will treasure those photos though. And having a recent photo saved someone having to do an in-person ID. Def weird, but good.
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Re: One of our own

Post by Feebes » Sat Jul 22, 2017 7:35 pm

A very lovely and emotional private funeral for four&out and her DD, was held on Tuesday.

We were given the opportunity to write on their coffins. From the ABA I wrote:

We love you!
From the ABA Community. Boobies!

Not very often that you write 'Boobies' on a coffin, but it felt so right.

:smt055 :smt054 :smt055 !!@!booby

I wrote a message from myself and DD2.

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Re: One of our own

Post by snowie » Sun Jul 23, 2017 7:13 pm

:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :smt060 !@~@~!group hug !@~@~!group hug !@~@~!group hug !!@!booby
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