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Post by fellare » Mon Jun 02, 2014 12:22 pm

I thought I'd video my for feeding, rather than make photos. Ds thought that was a brilliant idea and took the opportunity to close his eyes and lick my nipple in a way that made me think he will one day make a girl very happy :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:

Don't think I'll Show that to anyone in a hurry. :lol: :lol:

I'm curious though, why I don't feel any arousal when my child does this but when an adult does exactly the same it would make me feel rather pleasured.
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Re: inappropriate video material

Post by adk » Tue Jun 03, 2014 2:41 pm

Cant answer but had to add i am exactly the same. Bubs can feed and i feel like a mum - in fact if anything at the moment more irritated than anything else (so actually right now we are not doing much of anything until my thrush disappears :cry: ) but an hour later DP can play around and it feels totally different :oops:
I think it just goes to show how much pleasure is psychological. Somehow our minds know the difference and our bodies respond accordingly i guess.
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Re: inappropriate video material

Post by JC » Fri Jun 06, 2014 10:07 pm

It might be the body chemistry of oxytocin. Its effects depend on which other hormones are released at the same time; but maybe a chemist could comment. :)
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Re: inappropriate video material

Post by pseudo » Sat Jun 07, 2014 10:13 am

It's quite a taboo discussion unfortunately and, although I've never experienced it myself, it's not super common but some women become sexually aroused while breastfeeding. I did the lactation course for health professionals a few years ago and did quite a bit of reading about it but of course now I can't find any of the info!

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One issue rarely mentioned is that the breastfeeding experience is very sensuous in itself and some mothers may become aroused during breastfeeding (Hotchner, 1979; Lawrence, 1989; Mueller, 1985; Reamy & White, 1987). This is a normal phenomenon. Yet, mothers may feel guilty if they have these feelings. Consequently, some may decide to stop breastfeeding. Should a mother decide to speak about such feelings, both lay people and health care professionals may be shocked, may ridicule her, and may even report her to child protection services (Huggins & Ziedrich, 1994).

Ganem (1992) explicitly explains that some breast- feeding mothers exacerbate the potential for this experience if they cross their legs while they feed their babies. As a result, the labia minora may rub against each other, potentially leading to the stimulation of the clitoris. The mother could experience deep orgasm from clitoral stimulation and uterine contractions from oxytocin. Though Ganem has been very open about this issue, Newton presented the idea when she first wrote about the comparison between breastfeeding behavior and coital orgasm back in 1955.

Newton (1955, 1973) describes the parallel reactions between breastfeeding and coital orgasm: a) uterine contractions are present in both processes; b) nipple erection occurs during both suckling and sensual excitement; c) breast stroking and nipple stimulation occur during both breastfeeding and sexual foreplay; d) emotions aroused by both types of contact involve skin changes; e) milk let-down or the milk ejection reflex may be triggered during both, f) the emotions experienced during sexual arousal and the emotions experienced during uninhibited, unrestricted breastfeeding may be closely allied, and g) an accepting attitude toward sexuality may be related to an accepting attitude toward breastfeeding (Newton, 1973, pp. 82–83). Women need to be reassured that while pelvic sexual arousal is not a common response to breastfeeding, when these feelings occur they are normal.

Women need to be reassured that while pelvic sexual arousal is not a common response to breastfeeding, when these feelings occur they are normal.
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Post by fellare » Sat Jun 07, 2014 5:32 pm

Thanks for the info! It's a shame something normal is taboo. I get physical arousal from niple tweaking! It's highly annoying. The licking I can't even really feel but looks pornographic. :oops:
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Re: inappropriate video material

Post by mummymanda » Tue Oct 14, 2014 8:32 am

Sorry for the thread rehash I am a bit bored :lol:

There was a very controversial thread on this when I first joined the forum of a woman asking for help due to arousal during feeding.
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Post by fellare » Tue Oct 14, 2014 8:41 am

Yeah, I reckon that's not uncommon. Just not talked about often.
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